Davingson (@davingson) - Honouree

Davingson

Lagos

sport lover and fashion

about 18 hours ago

Korean Hive Village

I Thought Setting Boundaries Would Make People Like Me Less, It Did the Opposite For years i avoided boundaries the way some people avoid difficult medical results. Said yes to things i had no real capacity for. Let comme

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Korean Hive Village

The Loneliest I Have Ever Felt Was Surrounded by People My calendar back then looked enviable from the outside. Group chats buzzing constantly. Weekends fully booked. People who genuinely seemed t

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5 days ago

Discipline Is Not Punishment, It Is Self Respect Wearing a Different Outfit My old version of discipline looked like punishment with extra steps. Waking up at five even on no sleep. Skipping meals i did not deserve i

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8 days ago

The Body Remembers What the Mind Tries to Forget There is a particular ringtone i still cannot hear without my stomach dropping a little. Nothing dangerous about it now. Just an old phone,

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9 days ago

I Used to Confuse Being Needed With Being Loved For a long time i gravitated toward relationships where i was needed. Friends who relied on me heavily. Partners who seemed lost without my

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10 days ago

Everyone Is Fighting a Battle You Cannot See From the Outside I used to judge people fast. The coworker who seemed cold and distant. The driver who cut me off without signalling. The friend who cancelle

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11 days ago

I Stopped Trying to Be Understood by Everyone and My Life Got Quieter There was a season where i exhausted myself explaining. Explaining my choices, my silence, my reasons for stepping back from things, my reas

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12 days ago

Some of the Best Decisions I Ever Made Looked Like Mistakes at the Time I quit a stable job once with no real backup plan. People around me thought i had lost my mind. My own family was visibly worried. On paper

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15 days ago

The Things You Are Most Insecure About Are Probably Invisible to Everyone Else For years i was deeply self conscious about one specific thing about myself. Avoided certain photos because of it. Avoided certain angles in

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16 days ago

You Are Allowed to Outgrow People Without a Dramatic Reason I have lost touch with people i used to call my closest friends and there was no fight attached to any of it. No betrayal. No single moment

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17 days ago

Nobody Tells You That Healing Is Boring. I used to think healing would feel like something big. A breakthrough moment. Tears, sudden clarity, some emotional scene where everything f

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18 days ago

The Most Important Relationship You Will Ever Have Is the One With Yourself I did not like myself much for a long time. Would not have said that out loud back then. Would have deflected or made a joke. But if i am be

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19 days ago

Stop Waiting for an Apology That Is Never Coming I waited for a long time. Longer than i should admit. Kept expecting a conversation that would finally acknowledge what happened. An apology

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22 days ago

Your Comfort Zone Is Not Protecting You It Is Just Slowly Shrinking Your Life Four years ago i turned down an opportunity that scared me a little. It was good. Solid. Required me to move into territory i was not fully

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23 days ago

Silence Is a Language and Most People Have Never Learned to Read It My father never said much. Not the type for long conversations or emotional speeches. Never sat me down and said i love you the way you see

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